3 Ways Accountability Can Help You Finally Finish Your Novel
Writing often feels like a solo act.
You picture the lone writer at their desk, a glass of whiskey nearby. Or the overworked mom sneaking in 30 minutes of writing before the kids wake up.
And yes, writing is usually done alone. You’re typing away, filling pages in a notebook, and keeping your draft under wraps until you’ve revised it a few times (unless you’re one of my coaching clients—then you get support from the very start!).
But here’s the truth: going it alone doesn’t always work. Writing is challenging, and sometimes you need support. As a busy mom, you give so much to others, and it can feel selfish to ask for help with your writing. But you deserve support, too. And accountability can be the game-changer that helps you finally finish your novel.
1. Accountability adds (gentle) peer pressure.
When you’re accountable to someone else, you’re no longer making promises only to yourself.
An accountability partner helps you set goals and check in on your progress. If they’re writing more than you, it might just push you to get those words down, too.
In my coaching program, we set clear goals—like writing 5,000 words per week—and I hold you to them. Plus, I give feedback on what you’ve written, so you’re more motivated to hit your targets.
2. Accountability makes milestones more meaningful.
Writing alone means you might breeze past a major milestone without celebrating. But when you have a writing group or an accountability partner, you can share your wins and be recognized for them.
That first 10,000 words? That’s a big deal. And when you work with me, I make sure we celebrate your progress in a way that feels good to you—because every milestone matters.
3. Accountability means you’re never alone.
Your family and friends might not get why writing a novel is so important to you. But other writers do. A supportive writing group understands when your characters hijack the plot or when a dream inspires an entirely new chapter.
As your coach, I’m in your corner. I celebrate your wins, support you through the tough spots, and help you make hard choices—like cutting a character you love but who isn’t serving the story (been there, done that!).
How to Find Accountability as a Writer
Join an in-person writing group. Check your local library for a writing group. Even if you have to drive a bit or meet only once a month, the in-person connection is worth it.
Find an online writing community. Be mindful of the group’s culture. Large groups offer tons of advice (not always helpful), while smaller groups—like those on Discord—tend to be more encouraging and supportive.
Work with a writing coach (like me!). Coaching is an investment, but it’s life-changing to have expert support from someone who understands the ups and downs of writing while balancing a busy life. I’ll help you stay accountable, build momentum, and write a novel readers will love.
Writing doesn’t have to be a lonely journey. Accountability can be the key to actually finishing your novel. Which of these insights resonated with you most? Send me a DM on Instagram—I’d love to hear from you!